Writing an Obituary

What is typically included in an obituary? You may want to include:

• Full name

• Nickname if appropriate

• Age of person at death

• Date and residence at death

• Place of birth

• Previous residences

• Family members and survivors - include spouse, parents, children, grandchildren, grandparents as appropriate

• Work history, military history, education

• Clubs and religious affiliations, hobbies, interests, accomplishments, volunteer activities

• Personality or unique traits - what made them who they are?

• Complete funeral, memorial service information and family receptions (date(s), times, locations, cemetery, place of burial)

• Family preference for flowers or memorial contributions or donations with instructions for submission.

Tips for Writing an Obituary Notice

If you're not prepared, writing an obituary can be daunting, but take it one step at a time and you can do this.

Gather basic facts such as date of birth, place of birth, date of death, schools attended, military service history and names of survivors. These will form the 'frame' for your life story.

Once you've gathered your basic information, add details about the individual's life to give readers a glimpse into their lasting legacy. What were his/her passions, hobbies, or favorite past-times? Was he/she a member of specific organizations? What did he/she do that touched people around them, or made them unique?

Accuracy is important. Be sure names, schools, cities, etc. are spelled correctly and that dates are correct. If you are placing the obituary yourself, make sure to include the name and telephone number of the funeral home that is handling the arrangements for further verification. Proofread the final version carefully. It is best to have someone else review it as well.

Last of all - focus on the life lived - not the death. Remember, an obituary will stand as perhaps the only narrative record of your loved ones' life. Reflect the person you knew and loved.